Why do we obsess ?

Hi everyone ! So today here i have a lot of things going on in my mind and i do keep a journal. But i feel like sharing this with real people and as of now i have no clue if anyone is going to read this or not ... but i'll go on anyway ..


Especially today i feel extremely provoked by the thought "Why do we obsess ??? " ... why do we let one thing or person in our lives become so important that they affect us in everyway? Because whether we accept it or not , wantingly or unwantingly we have maybe involuntarily given these rights to some individuals (things or people) to influence us ... Remember the last time you said "I dont care !!" ? What followed after the words in your mind ? Gushes of anger ? .. emotions .. ? If yes then maybe you're like me when it comes to this ... And here's what i thought today ... and i'm going to try to follow this .. maybe it helps ...



There is a reason why we have different relations in life ... a reason why we have different purpoes and not just one . By obsessing over one thing or person .. are'nt we defying the very purpose of these variations in our lives ? We don't realize this maybe but we end up treating that one thing or person like the "Sun" in our lives and we're mere "planets " ... so whenever we're upset about one thing or upset with one person we feel like we're lonely "planets" ... having nowhere to go ... all purpose in life destroyed ... all ambitions unfulfilled.. 


But why don't we think of this the other way around... in our lives we are the "sun" and all other things and people are the "planets" ... big and small... wtih different priorities... and whenever we are in a situation where one individual (thing or person) seems to trouble us ... we will always have all the other "planets " to hold on to .. to give strength to ... to love .. and to be loved back ... and if we think in this way ... we will feel a lot more strength coming to us ... just by a change in perspective ... 


Hope this helps me and to everyone reading this ... i hope this helps you too .because if you're having a tough time ... be strong ... cause you know what ... we'll be fine ...



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Comments (10)

  1. wwboyd

    I cannot espond that would mean I am obsessing…oh shit…sorry

    November 02, 2015
    1. superwomanrocks

      I’m sorry I did not get what you mean ….

      November 03, 2015
  2. wwboyd

    if an obession is anything we spend time on then I am obessing in my responce

    November 03, 2015
    1. superwomanrocks

      An obsession is not something that we spend time on… it is something on which we spend a little too much time and energy … like if you sit responding 24hours of the day on this same site .. then you’re obsessed with it ..

      November 03, 2015
  3. wwboyd

    check back in 23 hours to see if I am obesssing

    November 03, 2015
    1. superwomanrocks

      Hehe … I didn’t say that you are … that was just a example …
      Anyways this post was meant to be a positive thing .. no offence was intended. .. everyone has the right to spend some extra time over things and people they like .. just sometimes this obsession can affect in a negative way .. my post just aims at that …

      November 03, 2015
  4. wwboyd

    I took no offense, making the same point as you

    November 03, 2015
    1. superwomanrocks

      Good then
      Thanks for reading …

      November 03, 2015
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  6. nyora_f

    nice post
    what are you obsessed with or whom ?

    February 12, 2016
    1. superwomanrocks

      Hehe both actually …
      One I’m obsessed with something that I want to change desperately ….this has been for a long time now … and secondly … yes… I’m obsessed with somebody too..
      But you know what … I’m a strange person who has infinite sources of hope … I am positive that I will achieve what I have set out for … or at least try my best … that is the first obsession ..
      This post resulted from the second one … that I have no control over ..
      Hehe … I’m sorry to give an essay for an answer …
      Thanks for reading !!

      February 18, 2016